Leading On Management: What Are Your Foundational Pillars?

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about my foundational pillars: the strong supporting deep foundations and footings upon which I live my life and grow my business.PILLARSKAARINA

My strongest foundational pillar is my Mission: a simple 3 words…To Spread Joy. That might sound a little airy-fairy or “out there”, but I assure you, it is not. When I wake up each day, I know that the reason I’m here is to touch as many people with words, actions and intention that will (hopefully) lift their day and their spirits…to, almost by osmosis, help them feel that little bit better…more empowered, less stressed, more optimistic with not only a “can do” attitude, but a “will do” commitment to action.

Yesterday, as I was standing in line at a grocery store, I watched an over-worked, harried clerk attend to multiple demands. Two people needed problems resolved. There were long line-ups at each cash, including the one I was standing in. I watched people be people.

Some started fidgeting, demonstrating through their body language their disgruntlement and impatience.

Some started complaining out loud to an unknown, unseen entity, as if their negative words would somehow change the situation.

In my line, we stood in line for 15 minutes. I decided to chat up the two people in front of me. We talked about how one person’s ice cream was melting, how another was happy they’d bought their Starbucks coffee prior. We bantered for a bit, while behind me a dad told his young son to remain in line as he went out to the car.

The son was not pleased. He pleaded for his dad to stay with him. To which his dad said: “You’re a big boy. You can do it.”

As the minutes ticked on, the young lad behind me patiently waited, one small bunch of bananas in hand, eyes as big as saucers.

Eventually, the dad came back, wondering why the long delay.

By this point, another line was moving quicker, and I laughed and said: “Go over there. You’ll get through faster. And don’t worry: I’ll hold your place in line in case we get moving here.”

Well you know what happened, of course. My line finally started moving, and I said to the boy and his dad: “Come back, come back!” When they scurried back, I said: “Go ahead of me. Your son’s been so patient and mannerly.”

When the dad asked “really?’, I simply said, “of course…consider it my pay-it-forward for the day.”

Well, they both broke out in smiles. The son puffed up like a proud peacock. The entire mood of the line lightened up. People shifted from agitation to relaxation. The cashier moved from harried to efficient. We all felt good, even though the wait had been long and, to many, annoying.

This is a simple story. It didn’t change the world. But it changed the moment.

And I believe it’s the foundational pillars upon which we live our lives that are the moment changers, which in turn, can change the world in which we operate in. Like a pebble dropped into a pond, our actions have a ripple effect. We can choose action that has a negative effect, and perpetuate what might already be an unpleasant situation. Or…we can choose action that impacts others in a positive way.

My foundational pillars include:

  • Seeing each moment as an opportunity to impact my own life, and the lives of those around me, in an uplifting way, whether through a simple smile, an act of kindness, a piece of valuable information or a helping hand
  • Supporting others to be the best they can be, to recognize or acknowledge their words or works and to “be there” for them, even when not asked to do so, with no expectation of return
  • Loving myself, my family, my friends and my life
  • Accepting myself as I am, accepting others as they are, not judging the person, and separating the person from the behaviour
  • Knowing that I will falter, fail, make mistakes (but I’ll only make a particular mistake once:), screw up, trip and fall, but never stay down
  • Realizing that every day is a gift waiting to be unwrapped. Some days the box will feel empty: some days it will overflow with abundance. It is up to me to see in that gift opportunity, possibility and potential.

What are your Foundational Pillars?

Editor’s Note: This post has been republished with permission from Kaarina Dillabough

Kaarina Dillabough

Kaarina Dillabough

Business Life Coach at Decide2Do
Kaarina is a business/life coach living in Ontario. For over 25 years her high-voltage energy, expertise and experience has inspired those she has worked with to reach beyond their grasp, to attain great things in business and in life. A former Olympic sports colour commentator and coach, Kaarina parlayed her coaching skills from the gym floor to the boardroom, working with business owners to improve their profitability and prosperity. In doing so, she has seen people grow both personally and professionally. Kaarina is known as an inspiring motivational speaker in areas such as branding, marketing, business growth strategies, and personal growth and prosperity. She is a passionate, seasoned coach and accountability partner with a proven track record, who loves nothing more than helping people achieve their goals in business and in life.
Kaarina Dillabough
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